Tuesday, December 25, 2012

This Christmas…

I decided to play “the pregnancy card” this year (I’m ready to “pop” any minute), and I scaled way back on my normal Christmas preparations. I did not send out cards. I did not do a bunch of shopping or make a bunch of homemade gifts. I did not do a bunch of baking. And other than Christmas Eve Mass, I did not go anywhere.

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Honestly? This has been the best Christmas I’ve had in quite awhile. Aside from pregnancy discomforts and anxieties, this year has been less stressful and more peaceful. I’ve actually enjoyed Christmas. Maybe I’ve been too busy doing too much stuff that really doesn’t matter? Maybe my future Christmases should be this simple?

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The kids put up and decorated the Christmas tree. I left it just the way they decorated it.

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The kids got two gifts apiece from us. They seemed to greatly appreciate them. Greg and I each ordered the other something that we had been wanting, but we didn’t spend a lot of money. (My present is a pair of these –I can’t wait to play with them! I can’t post Greg’s because he isn’t sure what I ordered yet.)

My dinner was quickly thrown together from boxes, cans, and the frozen section, but regardless, the temptation to use paper plates was fleeting and easily overcome. I love getting out my “fancy” dishes and my Christmas tablecloth. Winking smile

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As we were getting ready to sit down to Christmas dinner, the doorbell rang. It was my brother, whom is in the military and stationed thousands of miles away. Big smiles all around here!

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We ended the evening by watching “A Christmas Story”—Caveman got a bb gun for Christmas, and the phrase “you’ll shoot your eye out, kid" was the most repeated phrase at our house today.

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To top it all off…

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We had a rare white Christmas!

I’m feeling pretty blessed tonight. And I’m thinking that this is the way Christmas should feel. Merry Christmas.

Friday, December 14, 2012

Our Favorite Herbal Remedies For Cold and Flu Season

As I’ve mentioned previously on my blog, my interest in herbal remedies came from my Grandmother…
     “My introduction to natural remedies came from my Grandmother when I was a child. For boo-boos and stings, she would snap off a piece of her aloe vera plant. Once at her house, I had a toothache, and she used a jar of clove oil to soothe it. She used honey to quieten coughs.
A few years ago, around the time our third child was born, I began looking more into the ‘old ways’ of doing things. It started with small things, like using steam and eucalyptus oil for stuffy noses rather than reaching for a decongestant. Or using a few drops of warmed olive oil for an earache. I discovered how things like garlic and apple cider vinegar benefit our health. I had always believed in the healing powers of plants, but I became seriously interested in learning more about natural remedies. I gathered knowledge gradually, here and there, little bits at a time.”

The internet can provide a wealth of free information about herbal remedies, although when looking for “natural cures”, one often has to sift through a bunch of junk to get to the gems. I am not interested in the latest fad or costly supplements (“snake oils”) and am more interested in remedies that I can grow, harvest, and prepare myself. I appreciate scientific studies, but in the absence of scientific studies, I am interested in how long such cures have been in use and how consistently documented the effects have been. (Face it, most scientific studies are conducted and published by big businesses who stand to gain a profit from findings in their favor.)
Most of the herbs I use are quite gentle. Many can be found at the local supermarket. That does not mean they are not effective!
“Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.”  ~Hippocrates

Over the years, I have discovered that changing our diets and some of our habits, along with ditching the over-the-counter drugs in favor of herbal and home remedies, have kept us healthy.  In fact, in our growing family of eight, none of us have had to resort to antibiotics to treat our illnesses since…I think 2008? 
(Our doctor visits have been so few and far between that when I took the kids for checkups this summer, the pediatrician’s office did not have some of my kids in their system, even though I knew they have all been to at least one checkup. Regardless of what others may think about my children only being seen by a pediatrician once a year, the pediatrician confirms that they are all quite healthy. I present this as evidence that what we are doing is working well for us.)

Learning Herbs is a good introductory website. Herbalists such as Susun Weed, Heather Nic an Fhleisdeir, and Rosalee de la ForĂȘt provide a wealth of herbal knowledge on their websites. (As a Catholic, some of the spirituality does not mesh with my own, but that’s OK. I appreciate the herbal knowledge of these women, and I take what I can use.)
If I am unable to grow/harvest my own herbs, I order them online from Frontier or Mountain Rose Herbs.
In my kitchen, I have a big binder of herbal remedy recipes that I have collected from these and other various sources, and I will share some of my most-used, tried-and-true, simple-to-make favorites.

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Long documented as an anti-viral, we begin taking elderberry syrup at the first sign of a virus—scratchy throats, runny noses, sneezing, etc. Especially if there is flu in our area! We have had excellent luck with this cutting down the severity and duration of our colds.
Elderberry syrup:
1/2 cup dried elderberries
2 cups water
1 cup raw, unfiltered honey (preferably local)
Bring the elderberries and water to a boil, and simmer for 30-45 minutes, until the liquid is reduced by half. Strain the liquid, add the honey. It will keep refrigerated for 4-6 weeks.
Elderberry flavonoids bind to and prevent H1N1 infection in vitro

Echinacea
We also take Echinacea, well-known for its immune-boosting properties—at the first signs of illness.
Tea—place the dried herb into a mesh tea ball, steep in hot water for at least 20 minutes. (Steep all herbal teas for 20 minutes to receive medicinal benefits.)
Tincture—squirt a dropperful directly onto the back of a sore throat. Yes, it makes the children hate me for about five minutes, but we have had good luck with this curing sore throats quickly. You know that feeling like you are swallowing glass? Yeah, that’s what I’m talking about. And when the kids get to that point, they will actually ask for the tincture. (How to make a folk tincture.)

Ginger tea—grate about 1 inch of a ginger root, steep for 20 minutes, add lemon juice and raw honey. Ginger is a warming, stimulating herb which strengthens the immune system, loosens phlegm, and soothes scratchy throats (honey and lemon are also immune-strengthening and soothing.)

For stuffy noses/congestion:
Chamomile flowers—place a handful of chamomile flowers, along with a pinch of peppermint leaves into a bowl and cover with steaming hot water. Place a towel over your head, drape around the bowl, and breathe in the steam. Follow up by blowing all the junk out of your nose and a cup of strongly-brewed peppermint tea.

For fevers:
I don’t treat fevers—they serve a purpose in killing viruses/bacteria in the body. Rather, I treat discomfort associated with the fever and support the immune system in fighting off the illness. We stay hydrated with teas and bone broth soup, rest, and our immune-strengthening herbs. Some of the teas that we drink during fevers are chamomile, lemon balm, and elder flower. I also add rose hips to our teas for extra vitamin C. We avoid juice, as the high sugar content can weaken the immune system.  I have found that whenever I can let the fever run its course, rather than bringing it down with anti-pyretics, this shortens the duration of the illness. It’s better to let the body do it’s job.

Garlic has well-documented antiviral and antibiotic properties, as well as a whole other host of health benefits. Although I had read much about garlic being a broad-spectrum antibiotic, I never actually put it to the test until I developed mastitis after Baby #6. Mastitis, which can make one feel worse than the flu and pneumonia combined, is one of the few times I would ask the doctor for antibiotics! Yet it was on a Friday evening when my fever spiked and my muscles ached so bad I could not move. Desperate, l asked Greg to chop a clove of raw garlic into 3-5 small pieces, and I swallowed them like pills. I continued this every four hours throughout the night (along with cool rosemary compresses on the affected breast), and by morning, my fever had disappeared. I was back to normal by the time the doctor’s office opened on Monday morning.
We get raw garlic down the kids by adding a crushed clove to soup or spaghetti, mixed with butter and spreading on whole grain bread, or in hummus—I’ll add 4 cloves of garlic to my batch of hummus, serve it to the kids with raw veggies, and they will eat it over the course of a day.
For ear infections, we crush a clove of garlic, let it sit in olive oil for about 30 minutes, warm slightly, and apply a couple drops to the affected ear.

There is no way that I could write ONE blog post that comprehensively covers natural/herbal support for colds and flu; there have been whole books and websites devoted to this subject. But these are a few of our favorite simple, readily-available remedies.
As always, please keep in mind that I am not a doctor, none of my advice is meant to be construed as medical advice, and none of it is intended to be taken over advice from your own physician, especially if you have any underlying health issues or are taking any prescription medication. I am simply sharing what has proven helpful for our family.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

The Feast of St. Nicholas

As a Catholic family, we celebrate various saints on their feast days, and one of our favorites is St. Nicholas. St. Nicholas is known for his love of children, and stories of his kindness and generosity made him popular world-wide. It was these legends that eventually evolved into our modern-day Santa Claus traditions.
We have chosen to teach our children about the real, historical St. Nicholas rather than the modernized fantasy Santa Claus, and to celebrate him on his feast day, separating the St. Nick traditions from our Christmas celebration.  On St. Nicholas’ day, we traditionally have a breakfast of cinnamon rolls, sausage, and hot chocolate, and we find in our stockings gold-wrapped chocolates, candy canes, warm socks, and other small goodies.
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Our Christmas celebration will be focused on celebrating the birth of the Christ.

Monday, December 3, 2012

13 (Mostly) Happy Years!

HoneyBear and I are celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary this week, and we went on our customary anniversary date last night. Even though I am hugely pregnant, it was one of our best date nights yet!
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We went to see the Stardust Big Band, who plays regularly around Hot Springs, and I was thrilled to discover my former college clarinet professor, Dr. Earl Hesse, leading the saxophone section. I remember Dr. Hesse as a very talented, fun-loving man who was well-known for his practical jokes on HSU band trips. I was able to visit with him while the band was taking a break, and I felt very honored that he seemed to remember me as well! It has been 20 years, and he doesn't seem to have aged a bit.  Here he is playing a solo…


It was fun to see people our parents' age on the dance floor “cutting a rug”. It’s definitely an inspiration to take good care of our health and stay in shape!
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(Did I mention that I am HUGE?)

After working up a hunger, we lingered  at Belle Arti Ristorante. The atmosphere was romantic, and the lobster bisque soup, stuffed portabella mushrooms, lobster-stuffed ravioli, and filet mignon were heavenly!
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Even if the prices did make us go:
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Oh, well, it’s only once a year. Winking smile

After dinner, we wrapped up the night by strolling through Garvan Woodland Gardens, which boasts a  two-million light Christmas display. It was definitely worth the hour and a half it took to waddle through. HoneyBear had to pull me up some of the hills, and I wound up taking off my boots and walking in my sock feet. It was 70 degrees out! I think we’ll take the children back in a couple of weeks. Maybe it will actually feel like Christmas then?
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Still crazy in love after 13 years of marriage and six pregnancies together…priceless.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Walking Around Our Small Town

Today, my Honeybear and I went walking around our small town--the town where I grew up—and for some reason, it occurred to me to pull out my iPhone and snap some pictures.

I have lived here my whole life, but it has changed a bit from when I was a child. My Daddy lived here his whole life, and from the pictures I’ve seen taken when he was a child, the change is even more dramatic. I guess I just wanted to document for the children the town of their childhoods. If we ever move (we are discussing it), I know I will appreciate these memories.

This burger joint has been here for as long as I can remember. It sits at the major intersection of the two highways that run through our town, and travelers passing through are well-acquainted with its mom-and-pop-style burgers.
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Across from the courthouse is the dojo where I began studying martial arts in 2002. I help teach here now, and two of my children study here.
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There have been many different businesses occupying these buildings in the last thirty years.
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We wound up stopping in a small coffee house, which has been here for…I dunno…ten years now?IMG_5889
I love the décor and the atmosphere of this place.
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Even more, I love sharing coffee here with this man.
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Around the block from the coffee house is our city hall.IMG_5898
And on our way back home, a street from our quiet neighborhood, where we’ve taken many walks and bicycle rides through the years.
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Thursday, November 1, 2012

All Hallows’ Eve

We decided to do something different this year…trick-or-treating. Most of the kids have never been. And Mama and Daddy decided to join in the fun and dress up, too.

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